Sorry to jump in, but I was wondering if you feel you get enough attention from your husband?
I notice you vying for his attention and when or if you don't get it, then you act out in a negative way so that you are SURE you have his full attention. Something to work on might be to attempt to get his attention in positive ways and see if that has the reaction you are looking for.
It also seems that you are wanting his help in order to conquer the internet addiction. Does it sadden you that he is unwilling to take part in this, or to validate your successes? Maybe that would be a place to start the communication with him--openly and honestly and without the drama.
Or, just leave the R talks alone altogether, which is probably the best course of action. Show him the wonderful side of yourself that originally drew him to you and I know that he will begin to come around soon.
