well... i read some more..the DR is so easy to read... I will have to practice DB with a few things.. MY BIL just called and said that he will be bringing friends up overnight to camp.. usually this would cause a huge nagging session from me... it would make me tense.. dont get me wrong.. all the hairs are up on my back... but it has nothing to do with my H and it is something that i seriously need to let go... I am hoping I am able to do so as it is not important enough to have a set back. Pretty quiet evening tonight... i'm hoping it all goes smoothly.. i'll update tomorrow... thanks again