Well last week my H and I got into a fight and things were getting pretty heated and I told him FY..Which I have only said maybe 3x's in being with him. Anyway his response was "YOU WISH" ouch!!!! I said "I DON'T THINK SO" wow he has known long before I did that he holds all of the power.. That was a really eye opener.... I need to get the ball back in my court.. what do I do to do that???