If CAW is going to smoke she's going to smoke and there's little as you know...you can say or do about it.
I understand your concern for the possibility of smoking in the home but I think if that were occuring you'd know it already (as d11 pointed out...the jeep stinks...the house would too).
Smoking, as stupid as it is...is one of those things we can choose to do or not to do to our own bodies.
Quote: When I moved in to live with her, it was on the stipulation that she would quit. As you folks may have figured out by now, I'm pretty tolerable to just about anything (even her seeing another guy for two years while attempting to save our M). But when it comes to smoking I have very strong feelings against it.
sit back and really think about that KAW. she was respectful enough to ASK if you'd mind if she smoked in your presence and refrained...be respectful of her and allow her the right to make her own decision if it is something she'll continue with...heck I'd imagine putting up with her seeing another guy for 2 years is more damaging to you personally than her having a butt now and then.
or of course there's another project to work on...figure out why exactly you are so apposed to smoking (and more leaniant in other areas like say adultery) other than of course the obvious medical reasons we all know of (have you lost family to illness caused by smoking? are you an ex smoker etc) are you possibly projecting your feelings about this issue onto CAW?
