I am keeping up on your sitch. I second on what Slowly says:
Quote: Dad sounds like he is slowly adjusting to the new regime too? Busy is good, busy is good...
So glad your D!! is home more,too....she is so loved by you and knows it well. You continue doing what you are doing. Let CAW go on her own journey...open up your world to new people....I don't care how reserved you might be....just be friendly to whomever you meet....grocery store, errands, library, your D11 school, her activities...women are out there looking too y'know. Just waiting for a kind, gentle smile to come their way...opening the door for conversation.
Just some thoughts for you to consider. Are you interested in any churches in your area? Clubs? Taking classes at a community center? Volunteering with needy groups....fun activities?