It is hard for you to let CAW comes and go as she pleases. My W left last Wed, we did not have any talk since then. She still calls S sometimes. My S is the victim here. He is very sad. I am trying help him.
I have changed the lock on my house. I don't trust my W and the om come into my house while I am away. My W took all of her cloths and belongings. Including all of the share porfolio I bought some for her. Only few shares she bought herself. Surprisingly it was easy to go dark. I don't feel too much pain. I am only sad for my S. I am busier as a single parent with 2 kids. But both of them can help. Give me three months, I will be OK.