KAW, I didn't touch that comment about naked roommates because I have NO experience with it. Uh, when Mr. Wonderful told me he was moving out and was knee deep in acquiring an apartment and gathering all the furnishings, he had nothing to do with me... he slept in the guest room and that was the extent of our last few nights together.
Personally, I think it's wise not to pass judgment on that sort of thing. I don't think I could handle lying in bed to a naked man who doesn't love me, but then again, lots of people here are evidence that the WAS is interested in maintaining intimacy at that level with the LBS. I think each situation is unique. No one size fits all here on the BB
KAW, all I can think of here is that there are times when being the gentleman isn't suiting you well. Nor do I think CAW is expecting you to act sweet and generous either.
I think your idea about creating mystery is a good one, though. What can you do to engage a little more of this type of behavior?
Thinking of you, special one.
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