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How does she get full custody while seeing OM? And if you have custody, she will have to pay you support. Just something to think about.

KAW, I really feared the D, but now I am facing that fear, full steam ahead. I did not want it, but refuse to let H walk over me and am trying to start my life over in the best way possible. You should look at it that way too.

There is no harm in finding an attorney at this point. She really cannot make any arrangements without consulting you. I would not let her take your D from the house. If you think she will try to do this, I would be consulting my attny quickly to see what your options are. My H walked out and took nothing, so we did not have this problem. Your attny can issue a temporary restraining order to keep CAW from taking your D if you do not want her to.

Yes, if she goes the D route I would work hard to get it done. It seems they take a very long time anyway.

YOU have not let anyone down and you need to realize this. Your wife has. You have been willing to try, she has not.