Just wanted to tell you that I absolutely agree with Bets.
In no way have you let me down.
In my opinion, CAW is doing the typical run away from pain thing.
She's hurting, so she is running towards a fantasy.
I feel sorry for her, unfortunately, she's liable to have a rude awakening when the fantasy she has been counting on to relieve her pain, crumbles. Then she will have to face both losses at once.
Not something I would wish on anyone.
KAW, I think Betsy makes great sense...time for you to organize an EXIT plan that will protect you and the children.
