Let me just start by saying that I could never feel you let anyone down... not ever, not no way, not no how. If anything, the onus for any breakdown goes to CAW. I'm betting your faithful following will join me in that sentiment.
Let's say for the sake of argument that your fears are about to become reality. KAW, have you worked on a strategy to deal with the custody issues and any other lingering details that are BIG to you?
What I guess I'm saying is I think it wouldn't be too far fetched for you to plan an exit strategy... that is, what you need to have if she leaves.
I'm here to support you and will tell you that there IS life after separation. It's not always easy, but there really can be peace if you really seek it. And just maybe, CAW will find out that you aren't really the obstacle standing in her way. SHE IS.
Big hugs, special friend.
Betsey
p.s. I've told Hud he can give you my real e-mail address, but my posting one is underdog_dbatyahoodotcom
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
