KAW,

I am so sorry that you have continued to struggle with this.

I know that Betsy made the very difficult decision that it was time for her and her husband to sign the divorce papers. That he would never be who she wanted. And there was some thought that it might be kinder to let him go...as he could never be what she needed.

Have you been reading her threads?

I'm not encouraging you to divorce your wife...

But, I'm hoping that if you begin talking to Bets...or reading her threads, you will find some comfort or wisdom that I can't give you right now.

I'm sorry, I feel like I am failing you.

But I know you have tried your best.

I know that you are a wonderful DBer.

I just can't think of anything else to try.

Sending you hugs.

PIB