KAW! Old pal...so we both decided to reboard the boards at about the same time?
I agree about the plateaus. I also got a little jolt about the whole business of wanting our "old S's" back. I've been doing a bit of that with CJ...going WAAAAY back to the high testosterone, heady, wonderful man who was ATTRACTED to me.
Problem is...can I stay married forever to this new CJ who SAYS he finds me attractive, but doesn't demonstrate it????
Sounds petty next to your stuff...but it's big to me.