It will probably only get worse. She has very big problems that need to be addressed. Basicaly, it comes down to weather she wants to desire YOU, not the desire for sex. You need to determine what YOU will accept for the rest of your life, do you want a lover or a roomate. Then yuo must make it very clear what you want in your marriage, and then give her time to confront her own issues. If she will not confront her own issues, then you probably will have to leave her. I am also in the same boat, it just took me 14 years to realize it. Women flat out do not understand that without great sex, marriage is usually a FAILURE to the man. There attitude towards sex is just mystifying. To not want sex, that is the STRANGEST thing I can imagine. And yet so many of us are married to these fridgid woman. How can tehy not understand that they are totally destroying their own marriages? Why would they WANT to destroy their own marriages?
