I have been in your shoes. My wife had twins, and we didn't have sex for the first 6 months after they were born. Since then it hasn't been much better. She has been very LD. We have been working on the frequency we ML, but it still hasn't been like we were before kids. I don't want to scare you, but I want to let you know you aren't alone. So far this year we have ML twice. There are many good and supportive people on this board.
