Hey Peanut, I'm not sure how serious you were about this, but this topic has come up before on this board, and recently (although, for the life of me, I can't remember who's thread it was). It went something like this: your spouse asks you to do x, y, and z. You say, I'd be happy to do that if you'd agree to ML with me once a week (or whatever). Not sure if anyone actually tried this. It seems to me that it's like bargaining for sex, which I don't think is right, unless it's done somewhat playfully in the context of an already healthy sex life.
I don't think it's a great way to address the underlying problems, but, as I've said to such ideas before, "hey, give it a shot. What're they going to do, cut you off?"
Hairdog, who's been cut off so long, he feels like John Bobbit.
