CeMar...I have to agree with the rest. I certainly understand the temptation of treating her as she's treated you...but this approach often doesn't work and in the bedroom you are more likely to alienate her further by taking that approach. By taking her to the point where she's finally anticipating your actions then turning everything off and walking away you are using sex as a weapon. You may want to re-evaluate that course of action and see what the actual lesson is here.
For me anyway...when I was LD that would have simply shut me down and caused me to shut you out.
