Go through my whole act to get her aroused. Run my mouth over all of her body parts like she really enjoys. Then I slowly work my way to her genitals, and get her really worked up, to the point that she starts moaning as I lightly graze her genitals with my face. Get her terribly aroused and anticipating the feeling of my mouth on her most sensitive area. Then sit up in bed, and say, "You know, just like some other person in this room, I think that performing oral sex really is yucky, I just don't like to do it anymore." And then just get up and leave her in bed all alone, and go do something else. I bet she would be pissed as h#ll, I would probably pay a heavy price, but as they say what is good for the goose is good for the gander!
I know were you are comming from there (excuse the pun)my LDH enjoys, loves recieving a bj from myself....but a couple of years ago he just refused to return the favour anymore, I asked all the questions is it me, I always shower before bed so no problem there...anyway no oral sex for me (or any other kind come to think of it) I wouldnt mind but on Sunday I did give him a BJ we hadnt had any sex for 6 weeks at least ( only 3x this year) I was on my period so I wont do anything then but no adverse to pleasuring my man....he would not dream of giving anything and recieving nothing. Now I sit here thinking what a big mistake I made on Sunday because his sex drive is so low that he wont want anything to do with me for months now
How about positioning your body so it would be easy for her to move into a 69. Graze her sensitive areas but don't dive in until she starts kissing yours. Stop if she stops.
CeMar, this is one of the worst ideas I've heard for a while. It's not honest, it's passive aggressive so it hits two of my sore spots..... and I hate it.
Now Tom's idea is pretty good, and much more likely to get the desired results.
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time, and annoys the pig.
I agree with SC. Not only is it passive-agressive, it's manipulative in the worst sense of the word. Bad idea. I know that revenge sounds sweet, but it's still a bad idea.
It's a really bad idea CeMar. If anything it will make her dig her heels in much more and she will not allow you to give her any more oral. The 69 idea is good Tom except that I have done that many times and I think (because I can't actually see from where I am ) that she puts her hands over her face. She certainly does not put them on me - she has a lot to learn. SD
CeMar...I have to agree with the rest. I certainly understand the temptation of treating her as she's treated you...but this approach often doesn't work and in the bedroom you are more likely to alienate her further by taking that approach. By taking her to the point where she's finally anticipating your actions then turning everything off and walking away you are using sex as a weapon. You may want to re-evaluate that course of action and see what the actual lesson is here.
For me anyway...when I was LD that would have simply shut me down and caused me to shut you out.
) that she puts her hands over her face. She certainly does not put them on me - she has a lot to learn.