I know were you are comming from there (excuse the pun)my LDH enjoys, loves recieving a bj from myself....but a couple of years ago he just refused to return the favour anymore, I asked all the questions is it me, I always shower before bed so no problem there...anyway no oral sex for me (or any other kind come to think of it) I wouldnt mind but on Sunday I did give him a BJ we hadnt had any sex for 6 weeks at least ( only 3x this year) I was on my period so I wont do anything then but no adverse to pleasuring my man....he would not dream of giving anything and recieving nothing. Now I sit here thinking what a big mistake I made on Sunday because his sex drive is so low that he wont want anything to do with me for months now
