Hey DB - Where've ya been? Its nice to see old friend post from time to time and let us know what's up. Too many people leave the bb and never check in. Its a loss to the rest of us.

You sound like you've got it all together. I'm so happy for you. You are also right - DB helped your R with your son. It also helped you. Made sure you left no stone unturned - I doubt you'll regret that.

As for me - I finally got my financial settlement. Had to pay out big bucks but I have my house and my sanity. Not so sure about him. I really feel good about it now and little or no contact with him at all.

I am still dating Josh (almost a year now). He makes me happy. We've never had a cross word. This is not something I am used to. No plans - just enjoying each day as it happens.

Still travelling a lot. Just got back from Florida yesterday with Ashley - off on a cruise at the end of next week (also with her and a friend).

So - thanks for the update. I still post, but I'm under Surviving the Big D now.

Take care, friend,

Love Barb