Is it just a HDW thing?

[Tim2point0]

Not enough for penetration. In the past 6 months we have attempted intimacy 3 times. Penetration was not possible on the one time he tried.

Okay, but there's more to intimacy than penetration. Might need to get somewhat inventive here... but tongues, mouths and fingers don't require a rock-hard erection (for either of you! ) Christopher Reeve and his wife reportedly have a "very satisfying" (his words) sex life...

[annette]

I agree with you Tim, whole heartedly

Trying to get him to do something like that and not act like he dislikes it is the problem. He and I have alot to discuss this weekend

Annette