God I love you guys, you have endless suggestions. Unfortunately alot of these have been addressed. Years ago when he first started having problems, I researched it and he even went to the drs. He almost passes out at the site of a needle, so that would definately be out of the question. And this from a FF I have to think that most of it is mental, they gave him testosterone and viagra, but didn't do anything. As for other ways to please me, yes, there are. He has acted like its a big chore to do that. I think he is trying to be more loving and sometimes, excuse the graphics here, he has initiated oral for the first time in 5 years. I had a real hard time relaxing with it becuase he didn't like doing that before. I think he is trying, I really do.
He claims he gets enough exercise at work, he cleans houses professionally now. And, Yes, I agree, being a couch potato isn't doing him any good at all. I take a belly dancing class once a week, and want to go to the local pool a couple times a week, been trying to get him to go with me. We'll see if he will.
I asked him to read SSM about 6 months ago. I have seen it move from different locations, but I don't think he has read it all. I have seen him read other things since then and SSM has been in the same spot for about 2 months now.
I really do appreciate all your suggestions. Keep em coming, maybe will come up with something sooner or later.
I have to think that most of it is mental, they gave him testosterone and viagra, but didn't do anything. As for other ways to please me, yes, there are. He has acted like its a big chore to do that. I think he is trying to be more loving and sometimes, excuse the graphics here, he has initiated oral for the first time in 5 years. I had a real hard time relaxing with it becuase he didn't like doing that before. I think he is trying, I really do. 