Annette said: ------------ One of the BIG problems Nop is he has ED He had it before he ever had the heart problems, but now its even worse and drs will not give someone on the medications he is on something like viagra. (we tried viagra before he ever had the heart probs) I really feel alot of his problems are mental. He absoutely refused to go to counseling before. ------------
Annette, there are medications for ED in heart patients that are site injectable (in the penis). The needles are tiny, and as I understand, cause very little discomfort. They work immediately.
If that doesn't work, there are other ways he can please you. Of course, all that requires his willingness. At some point, he has to be made aware of your suffering. A third party (such as Michele's book) is easier for most people to hear from initially.
I am not a doctor, but from what I have read, there is little reason why you two can't have a fulfilling relationship, exceptions noted.
Does he engage in any form of exercise? I would think couch potato doesn't qualify as an exercise. Maybe he can find an activity (physical) that he likes.
I love to walk. I am too thick (muscular) to run much, besides, I really don't want to lose the bulk. I can walk 12 to 17 miles and not think twice about it. It feels great. Too bad I can't do it very often. Maybe you can help him find some physical activity (health permitting) that he really enjoys. Even simple exercise will help his parts work better.
Please keep us posted. -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
