HP said:
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Sounds like your M is reaching a new level of intimacy...who knows where you will end up! You are a true success story..
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I hope we do end up a true success. That would be great. Only time will tell though. We may try hard only to have it fall apart. As you well know, there are no guarantees.

Let me pass on something that my Dad told me long ago during my youth. My dad has been gone almost 20 years, and he and I never got along, but I will never forget some of his advice. In particular, I love this one, said to me after I came home from school with a bloody nose;

"Now boy, I don't care if you win or lose, but you'd best let 'em know you been there"

I feel the same way about my marriage. Maybe that is why I try to encourage some people on here to get up to the plate. No matter what, there will never be a doubt in my wife's mind that I didn't at least try. I showed up. Win lose or draw, I was there.

I appreciate you, HoneyP. I always enjoy your posts and you have my respect.

-NOPkins

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.