wildebube said: --------------- I just found SSM about three weeks ago - about the time I registered here. I just finished it last week and am now trying some of Michele's ideas. It's way too early to make any definitive statements, but we've ML twice in the past 10 days - and twice is my yearly average (yes, I do keep score). ---------------
Good deal!
Oh, and it is ok to keep score. I keep score myself even though my wife and I are a good distance along the path to recovery. For what it is worth, we have gone from a few times a year to 5+ times a week. We are still working on the desire and passion, but even if we never get there, we are beginning to have fun trying.
I am just about ready to quit keeping count. I wanted to get to a place where it wasn't an issue any more, and I think we are finally getting close.
You can do this thing. Just make up your mind not to give up what you have started. Oh, and be prepared to change some things about yourself as well :-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
