Pink said: ---------- I am guilty of this also. What I mean by it is that my H does not ML in a away that is to please me, but just to satisfy his own needs. I am sure he would not agree mind you :~) (and i don't think you will either!!)
But he can be watching Tv, reading a book, on the 'puter whatever and then get the desitre to have sex and think I also have the desire. The truth is that YES I want to have sex but not with someone who has not given me enough attention or romance for me to want to do it with them ----------
"Baby, I really do want to make love to you more often, but I need your help. I need more romance and foreplay. I need you to pay attention to me, and not just when you realize you are horny"
Pink, have you spelled out your needs to him in no uncertain terms?
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
