I am guilty of this also. What I mean by it is that my H does not ML in a away that is to please me, but just to satisfy his own needs. I am sure he would not agree mind you :~) (and i don't think you will either!!)
But he can be watching Tv, reading a book, on the 'puter whatever and then get the desitre to have sex and think I also have the desire. The truth is that YES I want to have sex but not with someone who has not given me enough attention or romance for me to want to do it with them
