Mike, Has she addressed her lack of interest to her dr? I know when I had my son, it was quite a while before I was interested. I had a really bad pregnancy and delivery and was not particurarly interested in ending up that way again. But I was young.
Maybe she is kinda shy about MBing? Did she grow up in a family where she was taught that touching herself was a bad thing? I wasn't told it was necessarely bad, but was told I shouldn't do that. I was also told that nice girls didn't enjoy sex..... sheesh what was my family thinking? I sometimes have a hard time really letting go with H and showing all my passion, not that we have sex much, hell we don't really have sex at all, but sometimes he wants to engage in oral.
Early in our M, one of the times I was almost begging him to touch me, he blurted out "Geezzz I think you could have sex with anyone." Now what do you suppose THAT did to me? You got it..... I feel I can't be totally myself sexually around him. I am trying to work on those things.
Have you said anything remotely like that to your W? Just a thought.
