The one with a full tummy and a problem in her pants who wants a super short haircut wrote:
I can hear you laughing all the way in the midwest.
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I'm not laughing about anything. I'm so bewildered I can't see straight. IHJ asked if we could talk about the frequency of our sex life. W wants to, but I've decided not to accept mercy sex any longer (uninvolved and unenthusiastic). So, she's able to say that it's my fault we're not having sex. I think that's a big deal for her, but that's just my opinion.

Last night, telling her I didn't want a big discussion just an honest answer, I asked how often she thinks about sex. She asked, "Do you mean as in wanting it or thinking that I should be thinking about it?" I didn't know how to answer, so I said, "You wanting it." She said she really didn't know. (Thanks )

Then I asked if she ever MB. She said, "Oh yeah, but not since we had sex last." (2 months ago). It turns out that she MB several times between Jan. and April. Then she said that she "tries not to" because it makes her mad that I'm not doing it with her and it's not the way to handle the situation. WTF????

Since it was one of the few (I'm being generous here) times that I've ever gotten from her any suggestion of sexual behavior or desire, I was turned on by it. She noticed it and said so. I then told her I'd like her to show me. She asked, "Do you mean MB for you?" "Yep", replied Mr. Cool. And she closed the convo down with, "I could never do that. Nope!"

So, I'm...(I don't know how to describe what I feel). Can anyone make sense of this?

Mike - so stoooooopid for sooooo many reasons