Well I'm back at work after almost 4 straight days off! (I did have to come in for a meeting on Monday but I'm taking tomorrow afternoon off as payback!). I got SO MUCH done -- stuff around the house, some shopping, a ton of reading, some cleaning and organizing, lots of relaxation, etc. I really love being home!

h has been working his butt off on a very important paper for school. His commitment and drive are AMAZING! He is incredibly focused and dedicated. AND, he's just been so tremendous about carving off time for me, for us, too.

We talked a bunch about the fall -- he's going to be super busy with school -- full time classes, study groups, law review most likely -- so he's suggesting that we really organize our time well to make sure that we have enough free time to enjoy -- talking about bill paying online, getting more help around the house and yard, planning food shopping and menus, etc. I think my h has evolved into ME and I've evolved into HIM! He's ALL about planning now (whereas I used to be!) and I'm much less plan oriented than I used to be (partly in response to DB'ing his issues with me!) -- anyway, I'm loving how dedicated he is to making sure we have QT to spend together.

I have to admit that it's a bit scary how much we're in sync working on rebuilding our life and home and m. together -- but scary in a riding my bike with no hands kind of way

Catching up with you all...

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.