I agree it's a bit of a pain, I thought they'd just done away with that handy feature of letting us into a thread where we left off and letting us see how many posts we haven't read.
About the R talks. I have to agree with you guys. Of late there have been no "lets sit down and assess the state of the union" talks. Just stuff as it comes up. Seems less overwhelming for CJ and there's less chance of me culling up all kinds of other baggage into the conversation.
One thing that I think, no, I KNOW I have to spell out for CJ is that I want him to ask me questions when I'm having a bad moment. When I tell him I'm down because I'm having "echoes", I'd love for him to hold me and ask what it's about. But his tack is to basically leave me alone.
Probably what HE would want in that circumstance. And also, I suppose, who wants to hear about the echoes of pain they caused one they love?
