AWESOME STUFF SAGE! I want to be that way! I'm so afraid of being taken advantage of or taken for granted. Hyper-vigilance from the past?

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Karen -- Hey, I thought you were going to stop talking to those well-meaning friends



I know! I was just bragging about how I stood up to my C and then friend decided to give me her opinion. Concurring that there should be a date. (But then again-she has D 4 times!) I'm not dumb-I wouldn't let it go on forever! I don't get it. Why are well-meaning friends and fam. NOT well-meaning?

Can you visit my thread for a moment and give me your thoughts?
karen812