Hi Sage, That sit. turned out very well considering! You have built up enough blocks to sustain minor setbacks!! And H came with you!
OK, can we call you the "Brain Pickee"? Have you ever contemplated giving up "power" by changing YOUR behaviors and H not owning up to his own mistakes/actions? A woman at work thinks that I am giving my H too much benefit of the doubt and that I shouldn't blame only myself. I don't blame only myself, but blaming him isn't getting me anywhere, is it? Were you afraid of being a doormat by forgiving him for A and the like?
