I rarely post to you, but read your thread lots. Want you to know you have got me thinking in a different direction on my H and his communicating style. That sometimes his one word responses mean a whole lot more than just that word.
Well for instance, I use the word "stupid" a lot, not to call someone dumb, but to say "they're just not getting it or don't they see the real picture."
Okay I'm rambling on your thread, but thank you for stating things that are making sense to me.