Minnie, I can SO relate to what you described it's so hard though isn't it to really HEAR what's being said when it SEEMS as though it is so soft? I'm working on it!

Forgot to post my +s from yesterday. I planned a surprise date for h -- just dinner at a place he mentioned last week and a movie ("Anchorman" -- don't bother! Maybe rent it!). He told me that he had planned one for us, too, for tonight! I'm meeting him after class for middle eastern food and a movie. He picked "Before Sunset" which I've been wanting to see but didn't mention to him (didn't strike me as something he would be into). Makes it doubly thoughtful.

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.