And thanks for the compliments! Right now I see myself as weak, so I needed to hear your compliments! Thanks!
I understand what you are telling me; I don't like being a hopeless, bitter person, it is not me!
I feel on track now and will pay no heed to what H actions are. And yes, I usually praise my H to D when he is doing things that are wonderful; taking her out to eat, fishing. She has good sense, I shouldn't be afraid that her meeting the OW means I will be loosing her. D can make her own decisions on the OW situation.
Going home soon and intend on relaxing, quilting and taking deep breaths, visitation is this afternoon. After Wednesday, I hope things will settle down...and the stress level will go down.
Thanks for leveling me out! People that are here for a while have much to offer us dummies. "DB for dummies"