Quote: I hope this doesn't sound pat but I honestly hold myself 100% for my contribution to the problems in our M and 0% responsible for HIS contributions. that sounds a lot more definitive than it really is, doesn't it?
I'm not sure I really understand this. Are you saying you are not responsible for how he handled it and what he did to contribute to the probs?
Did you expect him to own up to his share? Or to say he was sorry, etc.? Or is that not worth thinking about? Did he blame you outright?
I keep saying that I'm going to quit talking to everybody!! So, here's to quitting unless they are DB'ers or have God-like principles.
Quote: I used to have a similar argument with h myself. Let me ask you this, Karen. Why would you expect h to be nicer and more reassuring to you than you are to yourself?
You just keep hitting me with that one, don't you?
