Oh, baby, that's no summary...that's the listing of my 16 (20?) threads from the start...it might be more painful (just in terms of effort) than a bikini wax!
I do think I have a recent post that summarizes stuff...I'll look for that.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
NOT as painful as going back through all of mine would be!
I have 20 plus, actually lost count.
Ok, I went and counted! My current thread is number 43 and that isn't counting my short threads, the fall party or any of the joint threads with David!
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Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
I really liked your pedicure lady story. Thanks for posting that. I find that other people can just SEE DB'g instinctively and yet I need a bb, tons of books and all of you to keep me focused.
I was talking to my friend who's H had left her (for a month since he's back) to move in with ow. I asked her what she would do next. She said, "The only thing I can do....focus on myself and my two children." Can you believe that? I would have said something like, "I don't know...cry, beg, file for D, force him into counseling (I actually did this)...." or any number of other crazy things.
Quote: A while ago I started going thru all of my threads and creating a document of "key ideas that worked really well" -- I got about halfway thru, I think...will pick it up again now that school is out. My plan is to post the key ideas for me in summary as a reference...sometimes I forget!
Things went well yesterday! Thank you for all your help!
And yes, it was $40 for BOTH legs!
The summary I was saying I couldn't wait for you to share...was the key points you are gathering from your thread! I know you were doing this for you...but if you decide to share, I'd love to read them!
In fact, I might do that for myself...just been reluctant to go through my old threads cause of the pain it might bring back.
In any case...
WOO HOO!!!
Congrats to you and your Husband on his grades!! That's incredibly wonderful!!
Oooh...good idea! I have to admit that I feel a bit nervous about planning something -- not sure if I'll figure something out that will please him...but that shouldn't stop me from trying, right!?
Thanks for the reminder, Pam, to celebrate with h!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
My current thread is number 43 and that isn't counting my short threads, the fall party or any of the joint threads with David! 
Thank you so much for being a friend. 
