I really liked your pedicure lady story. Thanks for posting that. I find that other people can just SEE DB'g instinctively and yet I need a bb, tons of books and all of you to keep me focused.
I was talking to my friend who's H had left her (for a month since he's back) to move in with ow. I asked her what she would do next. She said, "The only thing I can do....focus on myself and my two children." Can you believe that? I would have said something like, "I don't know...cry, beg, file for D, force him into counseling (I actually did this)...." or any number of other crazy things.
Quote: A while ago I started going thru all of my threads and creating a document of "key ideas that worked really well" -- I got about halfway thru, I think...will pick it up again now that school is out. My plan is to post the key ideas for me in summary as a reference...sometimes I forget!
