Are you sure you want to put Pamila thru all that??
A while ago I started going thru all of my threads and creating a document of "key ideas that worked really well" -- I got about halfway thru, I think...will pick it up again now that school is out. My plan is to post the key ideas for me in summary as a reference...sometimes I forget!
As for the IM stuff...I think I loaded it once and I think I have a user name but I honestly don't think I've ever really done it realtime. Let me look into it.
But tell me...what is troubling you? Let's talk here for now since it's likely to take me a while to work out the IM stuff...
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.