Myrrh -- eek! I was worried that you might feel that way...PLEASE don't! While I was surprised by how hard they hit, I'm not unfamiliar with the feelings...as I mentioned in some of the followup posts, I know it was a combo of many, many factors and not related to our "discussion" at all.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.