I was in the same situation. My H was using porn and not me . Things have dramatically improved in our relationship. My previously LDH has been away from home training for a new job for a few weeks now. He called me yesterday and said that he was interested in some phone sex. I thought he might be kidding and so replied jokingly. He said he was serious and it was "necessary". I proceeded quite happily to give him what he wanted. This makes me think he's really over the porn thing because it would have been much easier for him to just use that while he's away from home. Read some of my earlier posts. SSM and PM really work.
P.S. My H also told me he bought me some jewelry that he thought would look good on me. He's being sexy AND romantic! I think I must be in the twilight zone. LOL
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
. Things have dramatically improved in our relationship. My previously LDH has been away from home training for a new job for a few weeks now. He called me yesterday and said that he was interested in some phone sex. I thought he might be kidding and so replied jokingly. He said he was serious and it was "necessary". I proceeded quite happily to give him what he wanted. This makes me think he's really over the porn thing because it would have been much easier for him to just use that while he's away from home. Read some of my earlier posts. SSM and PM really work.