Do any of the HD partners ever wonder if you partner is mbating instead of ML to you? I guess I ask because most of the time I feel that's the case with hubby. That is what hurts and drives me nuts. Feeling like he has a sex drive but is taking care of it himself instead of coming to me? I was curious if I am the only one who feels that way. From what I have read most of you feel your partner just have a LD and that's it.