Quote: What I don't understand is his refusal to read the book. Guys don't read, get the audio and listen together, don't listen more than 15 mins What I don't understand is his turning a blind eye to my unhappiness. I don't understand his ignoring the white elephant in our living room. Not blind eye, he just don't know how to fix it. By the way, the elephant is PINK I don't understand why he won't go to counseling with me. Cause he feels he will just get beat up like I did, cause I did not know about SBT.