Poe, I looked at this site. Wish I could say that it helped but it did not. I understand the illness very well. I attend every appointment my husband has with his doctor and read everything I can get. What I don't understand is his lack of empathy for me. What I don't understand is his refusal to read the book. What I don't understand is his turning a blind eye to my unhappiness. I don't understand his ignoring the white elephant in our living room. I don't understand why he won't go to counseling with me.

Crohns I understand - H is a different matter.

Denise/Neicie