Thanks for your help. I don't know either what to do. He threatens to leave but doesn't. He called me at work today and ask me....I'm hurting you aren't I??? Well duh!! Then he said maybe I should leave. Of course he has no place to go. He turned down a job offer yesterday because it wasn't enough money...Well its more money than 0 money. Anyway he has to decide what he wants to do but I'm trying to do a 180. Going to lunch with friends etc. He is beginning to ask who I was with etc. He is getting concerned I think!! Every day is something new...I really don't know what to do. Thanks again.