Niecie, Don't you think that the illness is a partial excuse though? I mean, surely he has good days....?
Also, I completely understand that his stomach is not up for full-on sex; it can be quite demanding. But what about other ways to pleasure you?
It seems as if it goes deeper than the illness is all I'm saying. He is rejecting a lot of sexual possibilities because of...what?...shame that he can't perform as he used to? Or does he feel entitled to not do anything because he is the one suffering and you are not? There are many ways that he could share in your sexuality--is he willing to explore and be creative?
If not then THAT is your problem, not the illness per se.
Good luck and good to see you around! Congrats on the cake deco business, you sound like a multi talented lady..
