tim47:

I agree with you but I am not sure what can be done about it. My #1 emotional need is sexual fulfillment. My #2 emotional need is affection. My goal in life is to spend it with my lover, whoever that may be. But all of these things are FUSION. How can I differentiate from this? Everything I need relys upon someone else to provide. There is nothing that I can do to provide these things for myself. So, how can I differentiate from this. Everything else in life seems very minor when compared with this.