Yes, the LD folks are in the driver's seat, aren't they? Do you think that's why they have LD, in some cases?
Wildebube, I don't know how you've done it and stuck around and tried to make things better, all these years.
I am new here, and I'm still obsessing about WHY these people are so LD. It makes no sense to me. I guess some people experience little or no pleasure during sex. Is that true of your LDH, Peanut? Does he just not dig it? Or do you think he has some secret fetish that would turn him on, but he's too shy to indulge? Or what? What is it????? Are all these super-LD people actually gay? Is it really performance anxiety? What do you think makes your husband so LD??? These are my ponderings, you can see where I'm at - I know most of you have gone through all this wondering before.