I guess I really don't know what I think about the rhetorical question. I guess if Mr. Wonderful were to tell me he's ready to commit himself to resolving issues it WOULD be for the children and for the fact that we have been happy in the past.
But that's as far into the past as I want to go, because I refuse to live there. Which makes this question 10x more difficult.
Personally, I don't know if I can really say I've outgrown him. He doesn't bore me (though discussing teenage drinking games DOES bore me) and he's a really good father. For the most part, he can be a good friend (that's what drew me to him in the first place). Right now, he seems to be solution oriented with me to give me some time alone during the week--which is something I cannot do during the school year. I'm appreciating having a couple extra weeknights to myself without any added responsibility.
I guess I'd have to say, in such a longwinded fashion, that I would be praying hard for all of us if that were to happen. Because I truly don't have the answers. Yet.
That's as good as I can do. It's almost time for the lockmonster, so I'll start a new thread in a few minutes.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
