Yes, Pen. He's turned his life upside down. He'd be the first to tell you that if he were here, I suspect. Your question is one I've asked a lot of myself. I'm asking it now.
H and my C have both asked me the same thing. I actually answered it somewhat on my threads a while back, so I won't take up more space with it.
I think it's an excellent question, and one that we need to keep asking as we go forward because the answers do change somewhat as we grow and according to what behaviors we are repeatedly experiencing.
